Happiness and the Power of Your Thoughts
By Tania Boutin
Have you ever wondered…..”Why can’t things just go easy for me?” How can we be happy when there is so much negativity out there? How do I become happy? Your happiness and unhappiness is created internally. How you feel by way of happiness, fulfillment, satisfaction is not a reflection of your success, failures or other external factors. Happiness and fulfillment is determined by your opinions and beliefs in your mind. Even your successes and perceived failures are your beliefs in your mind and that can be changed with circumstances and time.
Life is only what you make of it and you choose your happiness. Now you might be saying, “Well, I didn’t choose this or that to happen to me” all I can say to you is, yes you did! Maybe not consciously but the mind is such a wonderful powerful tool that your thoughts have brought you to where you are today.
You and only you are in control of your life and happiness. Only you can control your thoughts and emotions and beliefs. If you are not going to make you happy, who will? You have the choice to either live your life the same way you have been or change what you don’t want into actions that you do want. If you are happy with the way things are and are living to your potential then just keep on doing what you are doing, as pure happiness is what we all strive for.
Everybody’s definition of happiness is different. What makes one person happy might not make the next person happy. You need to take a look on the inside and ask yourself “Am I doing what I need to do today to live my life to the fullest and to achieve the level of happiness that I want? And if not, what can I do today to align myself in the right direction of accomplishing that?”
We all can have happiness in our lives, we just have to DECIDE that we want it and we will not accept anything less than that. Negativity can be sent out the door and replaced with positive thoughts.
You may be asking yourself how you can stay positive when there is so much negativity around. How can you stay positive when you circumstances are bad or you are going through problems? Regardless of what is going on around you, there are also things going on inside of you. There will be feelings and thoughts that you will continually experience. These feelings and thoughts are what lead you to take action.
When you become aware of the way you think, you can take action to use positive situations to your advantage, and re-shape the negative ones. The goal is to think positively, regardless of the situation, and make a conscious effort to see opportunities instead of obstacles.
Positive thinking means you replace all negative thoughts with hopeful, faith-filled thoughts. You should dwell on the good, not the bad. You should talk about what is right, not what is wrong. You should focus on the possibilities and not on the losses. You need to keep on practicing and practicing until these steps become part of you.
Positive thinking must be reinforced with positive actions. When you have a solid foundation and genuinely believe in the best and not the worst, you are ready to step out and take some positive action. If you fall, get back up, and renew your faith. Practice positive thinking – act on it and you will succeed!
You can be positive for life, and it begins with you. What kind of life will you choose?
Author’s Bio
Tania Boutin is a Certified Reclaim Your Life Coach with specialties as a New Life Story Coach, Self-Discovery Coach (in progress)and Motivational Teacher. She is also a workshop facilitator and Law of Attraction Trainer. To learn more about the workshops click this link: http://tinyurl.com/ydc9y4d
www.taniaboutin.com
reclaimyourlife@taniaboutin.com
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